Is A Career a Calling or
Choice?
by: Michelle L. Casto, M.Ed.
How much of our career path is destiny
and how much is free will? In my opinion, it is 50/50. We are
given a life map at the beginning of our lives, and there are
things we are meant to learn, people we are meant to meet, work
we are meant to perform. But many of us are not tuned into
ourselves and the signs that are presented to us. We often miss
important information, and miss out on those lessons, people,
and jobs.
The use of free will comes about when we are presented with
options. Choices are really curves in our path. We can choose
to take the long route, or the quicker, easier route. No path
is better, it just impacts how quickly we move along our route,
but remember: when climbing the mountain of self discovery, taking the long, hard,
scenic route can be a rather enjoyable, enlightening
experience.
Confucius once said, “Choose a career you love and you will
never work another day in your life.” If you think about this,
what a different experience we could have in our work lives. If
we actually loved the work we were doing, it wouldn’t seem so
much like our traditional concept of work (drudgery/pain).
Think about it! How many jobs have you had that you dreaded
going to? What are some of the differences between a job, a
career, and your life’s work? Let’s define it.
A job is something you get paid to do (money is the primary motivation).
It is easy to perform because there is not much challenge, and
you will eventually find other work to do.
It may or may not fully engage you. Spirit may or may not be
present.
A career is something you get paid to do that is viewed as a
profession (status or identity is the motivation). It may
provide more challenge, but after a while, you may get burned
out, and choose to stop doing it.
It may or may not fully engage you. Spirit may or may not be
present.
Your life’s work is something you do whether you get paid
for it or not (your soul’s need for expression is the
motivation). There is plenty
of challenge and personal meaning. You will always want to
do it.
It definitely fully engages you. Spirit is present.
Remember that a job can get you started toward your life’s
work. In fact, jobs provide the very important element of
exposure to different kinds of industries. Take for example, a
woman who started out working in a department store as a clerk,
who moved into a management position, and finally created her
life’s work as an
independent contractor who trains others in customer service
skills.
Get Smart!
If everyone in the world could create their life’s work (and
they can!)—if everyone could find what they were meant to do in
life, how much happier and fulfilled we all would be!
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About The Author
Michelle L. Casto is a whole life coach,
speaker, and author of Get Smart! About Modern
Romantic Relationships, Get Smart! About Modern
Career Development, and Get Smart! About Modern
Stress Management. Her coaching practice is
Brightlight Coaching, she helps people come up
with bright ideas for their life and empowers
them to freely shine their bright light to the
world. Contact her for a free 30 minute
coaching session: www.getsmartseries.com and
www.brightlightcoach.com
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